Is it possible that the festering boil in the discussion groups is about the burst and drain, and maybe some healing can happen, and maybe we can become at least a little more rational.
Several weeks back SMG and I got into some debate over healthcare in America: Does it have problems? Does Obamachare help or make worse those problems. We began splattering each other with word-bombs. I suggested to him I would like to share my personal involvement in the "medical industrial complex' in past years, and the family connections I currently have in the world of medicine. (It causes me to absorb the news of the day and come to different conclusions than he does.)
He wanted no part of it. The facts speak for themselves. Just debate the facts.
I was distracted yesterday with some of the grimy, gritty duties of life (can you say 'dentist chair' boys and girls) and I come home last night to find this passionat plea from SMG that we should listen to him because he lives where 40% of America's coal is currently produced (I had already looked up his area and knew that little factoid!) and he had a grandfather who was a coal miner in WV.
Whoop-tee-doo! My first reaction was to fire back a response in the middle of the night: "I don't care about your experience. Just stick to the facts! We should just all look at the facts and be done with it!"
No, in life we all turn to folks with experience, with knowledge, with connections. If I have a question about my computer, I don't ask my wife's hair-dresser for computer advice.... I go to my friends with current day jobs in computers, or retired folks who are still in touch with their old computer friends.
So there is a tribe of us who find conversation via the computer screen useful, entertaining, or something. Maybe we can learn from all this. Maybe we can help each other understand what conversations our people, our nation need to focus on, and what conversation we are having simply because some Texas-style Whirlwind just came through the barnyard and threw a lot of dried something into the air and the people on the radio told us that is the important stuff we need to be discussing.
P.S. A note to SMG: My hometown used to be a mining town. My wife lost relatives who died in mining accidents, and uncles who left this world suffering from Black Lung Disease. During my years as an insurance and risk management person, one of the divisions of our company operated coal mines in Eastern Kentucky. I've been underground and watched them push that plunger just like in the old cowboy movies and bring down "a wall of coal". That is not an event you quickly forget.
So I don't want to hear your crap that you know more about the EPA and meddlesome government that the rest of us do. And though you claim to do gymnastics each morning.... the rest of us put our pants on daily.... one leg at a time. It's a great equalizer.
So here we are. Talk Radio is basically talking about things that... things that make for good political stink bombs.... but ignores the issues that truly trouble the nation.
What can we in a discussion forum say to one another that might set the tone for accomplishment, for enlightenment?