oldies76 said:
Kurt Toy said:
People who say "y'know" or "ummmm..." every few words in the course of their conversations.
Teenagers who say "Like" after every few words.....
I remember one guy in school, a black kid named Eugene.
We met him in 1985. Eugene came from inner city Newark, NJ and he got placed in a school that REALLY made him feel awkward, a mostly white, West Coast suburban high school full of heavy metal rockers. He felt like a fish on a bicycle. He didn't know what to make of this place. At all.
Eugene had a STRANGE speech habit. He'd end almost every statement or explanation he had to say with "and s--t, though....." ('though' sounded more like 'dough')
We never knew what 'though' was for, even as "Though what?" was asked a few times.
We tried to make him feel comfortable, took him (and his brother and sister) to some heavy metal concerts and house parties on the weekends. He began to come around and feel more comfortable and as he did, "and s--t though" began to disappear from his speech pattern.
I think it's all a by-product of adolescent stress and anxiety, ESPECIALLY these days. Even I used to say "like" constantly. As well as "y'know". They still pop up occasionally in my verbal (off-air) speech when I'm SUPER nervous.
But to this very day, don't be surprised (and ABSOLUTELY don't be offended) no matter who you are and even what gender you are if I still call you "Dude". To me, it still just means you're cool and worthy of respect. The kind of person I'd love to drink a beer with. (Though some people don't get it today as quickly as they did back in the day - another term I verbally use a lot as well as in print)......